5. How Does an Orthodox Lay Christian Become an Oblate?

 


An Orthodox Christian person, lay or ordained, who wishes to become a Benedictine oblate American Congregation of the Primitive Observance of the Order of St. Benedict within the Autonomous Orthodox Metropolia of North and South America and the British Isles, a Synod of the True Orthodox Church must:

  • Be of upright character and have a sincere desire for spiritual advancement according to the Christian ideas set forth in the Rule of St. Benedict.
  • Not be an oblate of another monastery.
  • Be an active member of your Orthodox parish and in good standing according to Church norms.
  • Be, at least, 17 years of age. Male or female.
  • Proof (copy) of Baptismal/Chrismation Certificate
  • Request your parish priest to send a recommendation to the monastery you are applying to.

 

Becoming a Benedictine oblate involves several steps, each designed to help you integrate the principles of Benedictine spirituality into your daily life. Here is a general outline of the process:

1.     Discernment: Begin by discerning your call to become an oblate. This involves prayer, reflection, and possibly discussing your intentions with a spiritual father or a member of the monastic community.

2.     Inquiry: Contact the Abbot or Prior at the monastery you are interested in. If large enough he might direct you to their Oblate Director. Attend a few meetings or private discussions as an inquirer to learn more about the oblate program and Benedictine spirituality.

3.     Initial Formation: If you decide to proceed, you will enter a period of initial formation. This typically involves studying the Rule of St. Benedict, participating in the liturgical life of the monastery, and engaging in personal prayer and reflection.

4.     Oblate Candidate Ceremony: After the initial formation, you may participate in a ceremony to become an oblate candidate. During this ceremony, you receive a blessed icon of St. Benedict and commit to living according to the Rule of St. Benedict.

5.     Ongoing Formation: As a candidate, you will continue your formation through regular meetings or distant learning, retreats, and study. This period can last a year or more, depending on the monastery’s requirements.

6.     Final Oblation: After completing the formation period, you will make a final oblation, formally committing to live as an oblate. This involves a ceremony where you sign the final oblation form and may receive a scapular or other symbol of your commitment.

Each monastery may have variations in their process, so it’s essential to communicate with the specific community you are interested in joining.


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